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When Moms Say ‘I Need a Break’ – This Is What We Mean

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What To Expect in the First Week of Breastfeeding (and what you NEED)

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Baby Things To Buy Before Birth: A Complete List

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25 Self Care Quotes for Moms and Women

How to Financially Prepare for a child’s future

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20+ Thoughtful Gifts for Young Moms

How To Teach Children to Apologize

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This Is For Every Exhausted New Mom

I’m Grieving the End of Breastfeeding: Our Journey

50 Self Care Ideas For Moms To Relieve Stress

50 Work From Home Jobs for Moms (that actually pay)

How to Teach Children Empathy

6 Fun Places To Take Kids During a Heat Wave

10 Ways to Emotionally Connect With Your Toddler

6 Picky Toddler Eating Tips that Actually Work!

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30 Things We Need to Stop Saying To Moms Immediately

5 Ways Music Impacts Children Under 2 Years Old + Exclusive Coupon for Musical Toys!

20 Cute & Witty Mom Shirts on Amazon

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You should be practicing #selfcare now more than E

You should be practicing #selfcare now more than EVER – but, I know it’s not easy. Click the link in my bio to see my full list of ways to practice self-care during a crisis. Oh, and #stayhome. ☀️ #selfcareisnotselfish

Pregnancy + Deadly, highly contagious virus = FEAR

Pregnancy + Deadly, highly contagious virus = FEAR. 😟 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I can’t say that I’m not afraid, being one with a weaker immune system due to pregnancy. I’m #22weekspregnant now and as my due date inches closer, I fear the unknown. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ When will this end? Will my husband join me in the delivery room? Will my son get to meet his brother at the hospital? What if I catch this crazy virus? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ These things worry me and I’m constantly thinking of the mamas who are experiencing all of these things right now. I’m praying for them, trying to love them from a distance. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It’s natural to worry but I’m not allowing it to consume me. Granted, I have days that are more stressful than others. I’m taking every precaution I can. But the one thing I can’t prevent is my husband from going to work because he is ESSENTIAL. So, I have to be strong in my faith, keep stress levels low, and try to keep us all from going insane. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Being a mom who is home all the time, even for work, my life is pretty much the same. My toddler and I hang out all day at home. But, I’m beginning to miss the little things: taking him to the playground, planning random family outings, going to the grocery store, eating out for dinner. SIGH. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Tell me how YOU are doing in the comments! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Stay strong, stay clean, and STAY HOME! Please – so we can get this over with already. #unfilteredmotherhood

ENJOYING HOME 🏡 This is social distancing at it

ENJOYING HOME 🏡 This is social distancing at it’s finest. This Florida boy is loving life. ☀️ #socialdistancing #justthetwoofus #stayhome

I’m thankful for this mess. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Right now, there’s so much unknown. We can’t leave our homes without fearing the worst and we don’t really know what the future holds. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ BUT.... ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ We can embrace what we DO know. We have safe homes to protect and comfort us. We get more quality time with our children and the ability to get creative with our time in quarantine. We can teach, read, entertain, and rest. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I’m thankful for today and I’m thankful for this mess. 🌟💙 #unfilteredmotherhood

I NEED time to myself. I need time to work on my b

I NEED time to myself. I need time to work on my business, decompress, and remember who I am outside of motherhood. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Today, I’m thinking of my two little ones – my toddler and unborn child. Today, I decided not to attend a 3 night event that would have given me all of the above. It’s something I’ve had planned since last year. Something that would have given me purpose again. I NEEDED that. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ But, I wouldn’t have peace of mind. Being in a house for a few days with women who have traveled from around the country, I would have been taking the risk of catching the #coronavirus. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ My gut said don’t do it. My mother’s intuition said it’s too risky. We haven’t seen how COVID-19 affects pregnant women, unborn babies, or toddlers. I don’t want my family to find out how dangerous this could be on our already weakened immune systems (from pregnancy and toddlerhood). So, while I’m sad to miss such an incredible event, I had to put my family first. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I hope all of you are taking #covid19 seriously. Please think of those who are more at risk than others: the elderly, the ill, pregnant women, babies, and young children. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Don’t panic. Just be extra cautious with how you handle things (especially your own cleanliness), who you come in contact with, and the places you visit. 🙏😷 #pregnantmoms

This morning we took our little one on an adventur

This morning we took our little one on an adventure! 🌟 We picked fresh strawberries from a local farm here in Florida. I love the simple days with my sweet family. My little one enjoyed picking his favorite fruit!👨‍🌾🍓 #freshfromflorida #supportthefarmers #strawberrypatch

First haircut at Disney’s Harmony Barber Shop wa

First haircut at Disney’s Harmony Barber Shop was a success. (Ad) ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Visit the link in my bio today to see the full details of our magical (and wild) experience. Plus, I’m dishing ALL the details on the first haircut package. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ WARNING: This is a fully honest review so you’ll read the things we loved and the small disappointments. Plus, you get to see some adorable photos of my little guy. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ SWIPE to see the AFTER of his first haircut. I think they did a pretty good job! ____ ✂️🌟 #HarmonyBarberShop #DisneyMom #DisneyFamily #BabysFirstHaircut

Truth is... it’s been a rough day. One of those

Truth is... it’s been a rough day. One of those days filled with overwhelm and mom guilt. I raised my voice, lost my temper, and wish for some alone time. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ These are the days I need a little grace and my son gives me just that. Aren’t kids magical? My 2 year old forgives within minutes and somehow knows exactly what I need to forgive myself. He crawled right on top of me, gave me cuddles, then passed out. I’ll never take these days of holding him for granted. 💙 #unfilteredmotherhood